[COLOR darkred][/COLOR] I guess I am going to keep this short and simple for the time being. I'm not real good about describing myself, so I will put a few details here and let the conversation fill in any blanks that I know I have left out. I am married and have a family. I am not looking to change that. The affection has been limited for quite a while now, which is why I am here to begin with. If it was everything I was looking for at home, I wouldn't be looking here. I am not a demanding man, nor do I go out and have sex with every woman I talk to. But I do desire the companionship of a woman from time to time. I am not ugly nor do I consider myself a model. I am just a normal everyday guy, who stays busy and tries to be happy. Sometimes happiness comes when you least expect it. I am very easy going and outgoing. I can make free time for myself when I need to, but I do spend a lot of time with my boys, they are my world. I am just looking for a friend with benefits, but thoroughly enjoy just making new friends. If you would like to get to know me, then give me a shout. I answer every email no matter if you want to make friends or want to condemn me for being on here. I look forward to hearing from all of you out there.

My Ideal Person A woman who is secure about herself and is looking for a man that is intelligent, sarcastic at times, honest, and loves to please a woman without requiring reciprocation. She must be discreet. I am not looking to change my situation, just expand my horizons. I know I am particular about my women, but that shouldn't rule you out. Give me a chance to get to know you a bit and we can both decide if it's the right thing.

****UPDATE****
8/1/07 - Well unfortunately my work and life have kept me quite busy for the past couple of months. But I am back and ready to loosen up and live life once again. So feel free to contact me and let's get the party started.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The stands at a sporting event, My desk at work, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Food Play, Voyeurism, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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