I'm in NYC. . .please be as well. (Or at least get here consistently.) I'm just looking for someone see (ideally consistently) if we get along. NYC is great. . .and there's a lot here take advantage of. Join me! As far as why I'm here? I've no intention of having (ever) nor getting married anytime soon. (If you're here for either of those, perhaps you should consider. But it is NYC after all. . and in the past I did meet someone great here. .and I hope find that again. Be fun. Be ok with sex and open minded. Have a great sense of humor!

My Ideal Person You're fun. You're outgoing. You are NOT into "pen pals" and, after a few emails here we exchange numbers (ideally) and start texting to hopefully arrange a time to meet somewhere nice and see how we get along. It (should) be that simple. LOL! But often? It's not. Here's what I won't do. If you ask me for ANY of the , it's clear me you're a spammer and didn't read this. That said?

For those of you are legit? Yep. This all happened. It's why I cancelled my membership here a year or ago. Is it THAT hard find SOMEONE in NYC have some fun with? HA!


-You're not a or llooking for a cuck. (Sorry. . barking up the wrong tree.)
-I won't go another site get "verified" or get a "safety" ID.
-I won't you , no matter what happens you "abroad."
-I won't continue or if you tell me you're in another state or country.
-I can go on, but I think you get the idea.

That said? Here's what gets my motor running:
-Medium or longish hair.
-Non smoker
-Dirty talk/sexting.
-Someone 's a bit kinky or at least willing explore.. (Be able me your bdsm test results.) I'll do the .
-Someone has a ready laugh and an awesome sense of humor.
-Someone understands sex gets better over time with the right partner and while, a ONS can be super , it's not what I'm looking for. Hope you're on the page. I prefer consistency with a fun, open, sexy partner.
-Someone is IN NYC (NOW!) and won't be here "in a few weeks/months/days.
-Someone is able meet more than "once every few months."

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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