Widowed in 2018. I've had decent success at meeting women through dating apps, but after 2 short relationships, I've decided I can't take the bullshit. Too old for women that act juvenile. I'm not in the mood to play Captain Save-a-hoe to a 50 y.o. Therefore, here I am. Not gonna lie, I would prefer to have a committed relationship, but in the meantime some NSA fun would be great! I also know what I'm in for. (My late wife and I were swingers for 14 years). I understand the meaning of respect and rules. The first rule being that the woman makes the rules....lol I'm pretty laid back, social drinker, non-smoker, witty and just your average guy next door. I have a great job, home and a couple nice vehicles, but can't host. My youngest is at my place while finishing up college. I don't mind ponying up for a hotel room, if the decision is made to move to playing together.

My Ideal Person Open to no drama women and straight couples that want to meet occasionally for fun. Prefer the women to be dark haired. (blondes aren't really my thing unless they are exceptional)
Ladies, please understand that just because you may be fit and have bolt-on tits, that alone doesn't make you sexy to me. I like all kinds of women. Older/younger/fit/average/few extra pounds......
The truth of the matter is, SEXY is how the package is presented. The state of mind and the confidence coming off you. It has nothing to do with washboard abs and big tits.