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mobang 69 M
1  Article
Best way   11/4/2004

I'm 50 and never been with a man is there any one that can tell me how I should let the first man enter my ass{ie} standing and what type lude should I use. THANKS


2 Comments, 57 Views, 33 Votes ,3.79 Score
CaCouple4Action 41 C
1  Article
Shady People   11/3/2004

My husband and I were meeting a couple at a bar one night. The couple comes in and we meet and talk for a while, we start to feel comfortable with them and dance for a while and head back to their place. once we get to their place, there are about 4 guys waiting there, all with cocks in hands, and the couple states that they were sure we wouldnt mind if some people watched. Make sure you ...


1 Comments, 159 Views, 99 Votes ,8.69 Score
Lifestyle Safety, Security and Privacy   11/2/2004

So you want to enter the lifestyle?.. Well thats fantastic !! So providing that you acted 'responsibly' and took some time to read up on the issue, as well as, opened up a permanent dialogue with your spouse, we would like to mention a few things about safety, security, and overall privacy and discretion. <br> We are a bicpl (very fit/sexy) who have been in this lifestlye that ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 58 Votes ,7.64 Score
Sad isn't it....   11/2/2004

You talk to someone... you think they're great... So why not meet *and here it's all about sex* but even in normal settings... You have to prepare.. <br> 1. ALWAYS.. ALWAYS tell your friends where you'll be and until when. 2. Limit the 1st date, to drinks or coffee in a public place. (If goes well you can always meet again for longer somewhere else) 3. Always set up a ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 58 Votes ,8.77 Score
hard feelings   10/30/2004

we have been in different situations that have ended in tears for her, and embarrasement for us both, When you say no thanks, and the others are a little more persistent than average, how to you get them to understand while leaving no bad emotions?


3 Comments, 45 Views, 39 Votes ,6.82 Score
rm_rm_mslovesexi 51 F
1  Article
The "NEW" Drink Carry-Method!   10/22/2004

Ladies (& Gentlemen too!!!) I have been prompted by a friend about what is termed the "NEW" drink carry when in clubs or at parties.... <br> It is when you carry the drink dead in front of your chest. You actually put your hand over the top of the cup/glass/chalis---and carry it like you are holding it directly in front of your chest/heart area.... <br> Why? <br> ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 103 Votes ,9.08 Score
condoms   10/17/2004

no glove no love.....get it got it good. there is some dirty shit out there. be carefull


1 Comments, 10 Views, 51 Votes ,8.96 Score
Call Girls- Are they worth it?   10/9/2004

I want the men opinion on calls girls. I am a naught girl myself and the way i see it is a lot cheaper way to go for a sure thing. I did the exotic dance thing and at the end of the night a guy would have spent several hundered dollars on beer and lap dances just to maybe see and smell some pussy (and maybe sneek a touch in). Or you go into a bar and try all the best lines and still come up with ...


6 Comments, 92 Views, 63 Votes ,6.66 Score
is there a sex addicts help centre???   10/4/2004

Is there such a thing as too much sex? To me, No there is never enough. When do you know you have a problem? Is it when u lay in bed half the day naked writhing in pleasure? Or on your knees with a hot cock in your mouth in the middle of the kitchen, dark roads, cars and anywhere u can get it? Sex is my life… it’s all-good but never enough. Anyone have any ideas? Like 2 ...


2 Comments, 44 Views, 29 Votes ,5.25 Score
NitroX1969 54 C
3  Articles
Why even bother?   10/3/2004

Hey, whats up everyone? I had my first AdultFriendFinder date last night. Just to let you know, I was chatting and getting to know this person through this site and by phone and through web cam. She definatly knew what I looked like at every angle possable so my question is to you all is why did this person set something up with me just to come over and back out of it. First of all, why go half way when ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 34 Votes ,6.30 Score
p_proteus2003 44 M
8  Articles
One in the Hand is worth Two in the bush   9/28/2004

There are many ways to make dating safe and fun. I find that when I meet a person from this site for the first time it is always wise to wear a helmet. I am not talking about a condom here. I am talking about a full motorcycle helmet with face shield. This sets the tone for the evening and shows your perspective date that you are a responsible adult. Secondly, always wear a protective cup. ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 22 Votes ,0.12 Score
rm_forty870 57 C
7  Articles
Apples.   9/17/2004

When dating be very careful, because a old lady told me one time, "The apple don't fall far from the tree.", so what I'm trying to say check out there tree before you let them under your tree.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 48 Votes ,4.69 Score
hornynychick79 45 F
1  Article
couple more tips   9/9/2004

I meet guys from AdultFriendFinder for sex frequently. While not completely foolproof, the risk is lessened. <br> My number one rule, completely unbreakable, is that the person MUSt give me his first and last name AND a phone number, which I call. It's not foolproof, but one thing I pay attention to is how he REACTS to the request. Guys that get pissy or angry make me wonder why they dont ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 69 Votes ,9.04 Score
rm_ambush_xx 38 M
6  Articles
is oral sex safe   9/8/2004

We know we're supposed to use a condom for vaginal or anal sex with non-monogamous partners, but is it really necessary to use protection when giving or receiving oral sex? In a word, YES! <br> Bacterium and viruses that cause a host of nasty diseases -- HPV, HIV and Hepatitis, to name a few -- can easily move from fluid to fluid. When the saliva in your mouth comes in contact ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 92 Votes ,8.48 Score
Re: Be safe   9/6/2004

I agree with the author of the previous entry. <br> As with meeting anyone on the Internet, safety comes first. Once you established phone contact and agree on an initial meeting place, it should be a place that is in a public setting (i.e., restaurant, mall, etc.). You tend to feel a person out in a relaxed setting like simply having lunch. If things don’t work out, ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 37 Votes ,8.57 Score
wvfexpcpl 53 C
0  Articles
Beware obssession   9/5/2004

Recently my Girl recived a call from a guy who is just a freinds, since we have only been serious for the past 3 months, he thought she was his girlfriend. He sat outside her house while I was with her at my place, and called all night long. she had to end the relationship. The key to this is to make sure set boundaries are there. I myself had a obssessed coworker cause me trouble and got ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 108 Votes ,5.95 Score
RebeccaAnn 44 F
1  Article
Be safe   8/30/2004

Ladies ( and men as well) <br> Just a tip that most would think is silly but here goes. When ever you decided to take it to the next level and meet in person, someone that you have met online here or any other site. ... always meet in a public place!! Trust your insticts..if something does not feel right , than it praobly isn't. Watch your drinks carefully if you are in a bar ...


2 Comments, 284 Views, 92 Votes ,8.52 Score
rm_gdbhandy 55 M
1  Article
get a pic   8/24/2004

I have found that when dating through AdultFriendFinder it is wise to get a picture of the person. I have found that the people that are not willing to send you a picture even after several chats have something to hide. The something that they are trying to hide varies but it hardly is ever good. <br> I have had a wonderful experience using AdultFriendFinder but would caution you if you ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 76 Votes ,7.87 Score
Married, , wonderful husband but still looking   8/23/2004

I am married, with a wonderful husband, who does everything for me, he will even kiss the ground where I walk on, but when it comes to sex, he always reached climax before I can even get geared up. And then he is done, go to sleep and not even bothering how I feel. If this happens once or twice fine, but not all the time. He does not communicate with me much, talks more to the than to me, ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 104 Votes ,8.42 Score
Watch the computer meetings   8/10/2004

Especially ladies remember, you have no idea who you are meeting by just talking on the computer, sending pics , talking on the phone etc. A person could totally misrepresent themselves to you and you would never knoe nti lthe last minute when you actually meet, so be careful and when you do meet make for sure that you have someone you trust watching around you when you meet , and never ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 113 Votes ,8.73 Score
First Date Safety   8/10/2004

I think a very safe way to meet someone from this site (there could be some weirdos out there, afterall), is to meet in a very public setting. A restaurant, coffee shop, or even a park during the day are stellar places to get to know one another, while ensuring that you're not going over to some psycho's place blindly.


0 Comments, 7 Views, 90 Votes ,8.68 Score
rm_ericlatonya 56 C
3  Articles
meeting   8/7/2004

okay people, i know a single girl and she likes to meet guys on the internet but they all seem to be thugs or want to to be hard up men. She has had some nice guys but she always rejuects them. Why is it that alot of big women will go and search for a one night stand around the world for a probably not even an hour of fun that you are not going to see again. To me this is not safe but ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 26 Votes ,6.80 Score
The 10 Best Places   8/6/2004

I know, I know - You work really long hours and you aren’t spending your Sunday mornings in church, right? You wouldn’t be caught dead at a single’s event, and you know you can’t meet anyone decent at a bar. Luckily now you have this list to refer to when you’ve run out of ideas. <br> <br> Classes/ workshops On the job Bookstores/Coffeehouses Friends ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 143 Votes ,6.35 Score
The 10 Worst Places not to Meet   8/6/2004

Strip bars Traffic court The Waiting Room at the Experimental Hemorrhoid Clinic Prison socials A Convent IRS Audit First day in Rehab Baby department at K-mart on a Sunday The Graceland gift shop, at the special edition Elvis decanters sale table A ‘Free Charles Manson’ Rally


0 Comments, 18 Views, 86 Votes ,6.05 Score
Why are games being played on the site?   8/3/2004

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen! I have encountered in my short time being on AdultFriendFinder lies and deceit. Being on the site not yet a week. I have come across the most deceitful person I could imagine. If you have had any dealing with a b/m, 62yoa, 6'1, average built, living in Huntsville, AL, gold membership, please let me know. This person has let others view his site and this person had emailed ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 57 Votes ,8.97 Score
How do you meet people in public??   7/24/2004

You meet people in public everyday, at the grocery store, gas station, club, restaurant, etc. Obviously, you're not meeting all of these people for dating but what if you were? How would you react? Do you have a back up plan, a safety net, do you give them your phone # or address if you're interested in them? Do you talk for a while? Do you follow your instincts? Meeting people from the ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 75 Votes ,8.21 Score
aquamarine99 44 M
2  Articles
Telephone info   7/17/2004

When is it safe to give out your telephone info once you have met someone on the net


0 Comments, 20 Views, 52 Votes ,0.44 Score
rm_Syndein1 53 M
4  Articles
Have Fun, But Be Safe   7/16/2004

With the modern technology we all love to use these days, you are more likely to meet a person initially online rather than in person. Being on a site like this, I don't have to tell you about all the fun it can be to meet someone online, but you should not jump in fully trusting just because you enjoy talking to someone. Here are some things to think about when conversing with someone ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 53 Votes ,7.95 Score
some simple rules   7/15/2004

I have always found that talking with the person for several days to a week or so on messenger or something of the like can help. Ask questions and have them ask you questions, you can ask the question a couple different times in different conversations and see if they add up. I will also talk to them through webcam, just to see if they are who they say they are so when the meeting comes ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 57 Votes ,8.07 Score
Mandyxx9 63 F
3  Articles
Be sure to be safe   7/14/2004

If your a woman who is looking to meet another woman make sure you meet in a busy place and dont give out any home telephone number of address. <br> On AdultFriendFinder men disguise themselves as women and turn up to meet you. Its very disappointing and a bit of a shock and you spend ages trying to get rid of them.


0 Comments, 68 Views, 10 Votes ,5.58 Score