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RE: So tired of hearing "no reply, blah blah blah"   12/1/2003

I agree that people should read the profiles and if they don't fit then they should not send an e-mail, but there are so many people that only have ads up to lure you to a different site, or when you do fit what they are asking for they still don't reply. I think the least you can do is to just send an e-mail that says "no thanks". As for the standard members, it's not that expensive to ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
rm_ApexCouple 58 C
1  Article
Race incompatible but messaged anyways....   11/30/2003

Are people fully aware that if you select a particular race in your preferences that races unchecked will show up as being incompatible? We receive lots of messages from users who for some reason have our race as one they prefer not to meet. You can find this information under "Compatibility Score" and it's marked with a RED X. We feel it's frustrating to receive these messages and are ...


1 Comments, 53 Views, 13 Votes ,5.49 Score
natural beauty ,desires,and wants   11/30/2003

you sense it, you see it, and you desire it, but how do you approach it....the ageless question we all ask ourselves during one period of our life or another. we either are wanting advice, or are willing to give that advice, depending on the cyclical maturity level we may be at. however there is always one trait that will be able to trancend the age barier and depending on our level of ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
hotbisexualcoup 46 C
1  Article
To: "There is no BI": Did you get left out of a threesome?   11/30/2003

Everyone has the right to their opinion. But the person who wrote the article entitled, "There is no BI", is displaying fears characterized by the extreme homophobic right-wing mentality. Should we all do it in the missionary position for the sole purpose of procreation??? What abortion clinic did you blow up? Are you the person who hands out pamphlets on the street corner, telling us we ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
totalpackageno1 55 M
1  Article
Women who lie about their bodies   11/29/2003

As a former Silver member, and as a standard member who has looked at the profiles of women who have sent me messages, I have to offer one bit of advice: stop lying about your looks! I have had enough of women who say they're "athletic" and have love handles; their abs are hidden under three inches of flab. "Average" I guess used to mean neither exceptionally fit nor obviously obese, but ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
Sex and the religious right   11/28/2003

Why are there profiles on this site that claim they are looking for a "Good, upstanding moral Christian (man/woman)", when the headline of the site clearly states it is "The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site"? Just exactly where in the above phrase is the "Good, upstanding, moral Christian man/woman" part? We are all adults here, and we all know the real porpose of this site. ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
People Please!   11/27/2003

This fucking shit with trying to read someones fucking stupid profile or email because they can't spell is fucking pissing me off! There is a spell check on your computer you lazy stupid fucks! But this only makes me wonder, Hmmm...why am I bitching here? The idiots probably can't read anyway!


0 Comments, 4 Views, 2 Votes
rm_SWSunset64 48 F
3  Articles
Sex with one's family members   11/26/2003

Those people who have sex with close family members (or even those who just lying about it) need to be shot. What is more disgusting than a 20 year old doing his mother. Or those parents who say they get it on with their own ! Anybody hear about ?!? Get a life.


2 Comments, 1094 Views, 23 Votes ,2.43 Score
Response to Old Guys   11/25/2003

When you get a little older, you will be kicking yourself in the Rear. The Old Guys, as you put it, are in no hurry, they know that taking their time, using their experience, can take a Woman where she has never been, and beyond. What keeps most Women from ever getting there, is limiting their options, ruling out the ones that have the experience to get them over the top, time after time, ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 95 Votes ,9.04 Score
Does this work or not   11/25/2003

I am curious about something and would like to know if anyone else has experienced the same thing. First of all I am a gold member and from time to time I respond to ads that appear to be people that I am interested in and that have some degree of compatibility with. In other words, we seem to match up fairly well. I do not use one liners nor am I responding with rude and crude messages. ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 74 Votes ,9.50 Score
RE:Does anyone here ever respond?   11/24/2003

Hey Scott sexcrazed668 I hear you! I am a female and I get all these lame assed invitations to be in 'their' network! No note at my inbox and on top of all of that shit they dont have a fuckin pic OR an album!! FUCK THAT! I do think there are a shitload of weak assed ones that just want to sit around and jack off to pics on a pc! Not I!! I get notes that say I sure would love to see more ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
RE:Why are some people on here   11/24/2003

Unfortunatley we all have the right to be on here limpdicks and alll! I know that I have to send out ALOT of notes to get a few and then whittle it down to maybe a keeper! Its definitley not a site where people just flock to you. And if they do are they your type! And then if they look as though they are your type are they liars or genuinely looking for the same! You got to play the game to ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
We men are IDIOTS!   11/23/2003

I'm a man, and I'm an idiot.I admit this quite freely-I wonder how many of the other men here can admit it? Here are a few reasons why: We pay money to send e-mails to women who won't even read them, let alone respond to them. We put photos of ourselves naked, frequently in the process of beating off in our ads-this makes all of us look stupid(and I really doubt there are many women ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
carnivore69us 54 M
22  Articles
Re: Hotlists and Winks   11/23/2003

Wondering why somebody may wink at you and add you to their hotlist, then not send you a message? Could be they are a Standard member and have limited capability to do so. If you're a Gold or Silver member, do some research on the person who's done either or both, and if said person is a Standard member, perhaps it's their way of telling you they want YOU to send them a message. As for ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
rm_shea1156 52 F
1  Article
If I say I want a picture I want a picture.   11/22/2003

Men, If I write in my profile I want you to send a photo, please send a photo. You see my picture and it is only fair I get to see your picture.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
PUSSCEATER2000 53 M
1  Article
HOW ABOUT A CATERGORY FOR INTERRACIAL ENCOUNTERS   11/22/2003

I JUST WANT TO KNOW HOW MANY MEMBERS HERE WOULD LOVE TO SEE A CATERGORY FOR INTERRACIAL ENCOUNTERS????IF THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE LIKE ME WHO DOES NOT WANT TO SERCH ALL OF THE ADS JUST TO FIND THIS GROUP OF PEOPLE WANTING TO HAVE INTERRACIAL ENCOUNTERS.I KNOW RANTS DONT MAKE SENSE BUT I HOPE THAT THIS DOES AND WE GET ENOUGH RESPONSES TO INITIATE SOME ACTION BY AdultFriendFinder. SO ALL U WOMEN AND ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
Sidney69 61 M
9  Articles
AdultFriendFinder SUCKS!!!!   11/22/2003

I have been a member on AdultFriendFinder for several years now & i've reached the point where i'm ready to remove my ad!!! Nothing here lately but fakes, flakes, & pitches to join a website. The new chat setup is even more useless than the old one, and as usual, it's full of people who are "just here to chat". If you just "wanna chat", go join AOL or Yahoo, & save the bandwith for people who are ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
The New and UNimproved AdultFriendFinder   11/22/2003

This is crazy that now Standard Members can't view ANY part of a profile? Then what in the world are Standard Members for now? Just fodder for Silver and Gold Members to pick from? This is insane. Who agrees w/Me?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Giant1966 58 M
18  Articles
I do not know either!   11/20/2003

To reply to why some people are on here, I believe the reason is most people, even when trying to meet people for "adult games" bring the same hangups they have always had, race, gender, body type, etc.Most people just cant let go, always going to have doubt about what they are doing.Most times even when they say they know what they want, they still dont know!


0 Comments, 6 Views, 39 Votes ,7.06 Score
old guys   11/20/2003

How come all the responses I get are from older men?? I am only 19. I dont want to sleep with older men. sorry!!!!!


0 Comments, 0 Views, 55 Votes ,1.92 Score
Why are some people on here?   11/19/2003

I have been with Adult friendfinders off and on for a few years and i find that some people should never be here, they're just taking up space for some people who are Really looking for a relationship or whatever they're looking for.I figured that i had replyed to way over 400 ads and don't even get a not interested note or they're not sure what they want or looking for.Is it just me or is ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 66 Votes ,8.56 Score
Being Called Cute   11/19/2003

What I hate more then anything is when a man views your picture that you have sent him and his only response is cute. Puppies and babies are cute. Obviously these men can't think of better adjectives.


1 Comments, 405 Views, 50 Votes ,7.38 Score
A Smooth Cock & Balls   11/18/2003

Personally, I get great pleasure and satisfation from shaving the hair from around the base of my cock and my balls. Certainly looks more impressive, feels great when I jerk off and the girls love sucking on a smooth cock. Just wondering how many other guys are regular shavers and what women out there think, or prefer. Your comments please...


0 Comments, 0 Views, 94 Votes ,8.96 Score
fshng4bass 55 M
1  Article
If my profile perfectly matches what you want...   11/17/2003

Why do I bother to email women who have indicated in their profile exactly what they are looking for and I am a perfect match (i.e. age, looks, wants, desires...) and they don't even bother to reply? <br> All I want is some "online fun" exchanging pics, erotic chat/email and cam to cam mutual masturbation...I email a woman with the exact same wants and she doesn't even reply? ...


0 Comments, 0 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
williebhd883 72 M
4  Articles
Catalog of photo's for women to use!   11/17/2003

I'm just curious here as to women's profiles on AdultFriendFinder! How many have looked up a woman and see photo's of her, only to see the same photo on anothers profile? Happened to me twice! Now once might have been coincedence, but twice! I appreciate the photo's ladies and only respond to those with photo's, blind dates didn't work in HS much less now! But at least use your own pics. I'm not even ...


1 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Now we can't even view profiles of people who email us??   11/14/2003

I just wanted to express my growing frustration with this site. When I joined, we (as standard members) could search and/or browse and could actually see pics and profiles. Over time, we were no longer allowed to view pics, but could still look at profiles. Now, I've only been able to see a few profiles lately. It's pointless to show us who added us to their "hotlist" or who "winked" ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
Give up all your expectations.   11/14/2003

Give up all those dreams that you want to share between you and your partner. Don't try and predict the future so far beyond your grasp. You cannot expect the nature of the world, which is ever changing, to be passive towards you and to respect your love. It is to end. Believe that all things will only to thus prove they ever existed. Love lovingly, yet not bindingly. People change as does ...


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
law93rd 52 M
4  Articles
Gay Man Likes Tits   11/10/2003

I know most straight men will think I'm ill, but why can't I like tits? Just because I like having sex with men doesn't men I can't enjoy parts of women. Come on, breasts are some of the most amazing creations around!


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Re:Wink from a silver member   11/9/2003

I think the winks are just for fun. You can wink at someone without e-mailing them. Just as if you were out somewhere, saw a cutie, gave them a nod or a wink in passing. Have fun with it. Don't over analize.


0 Comments, 0 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
I get plenty of responses!   11/9/2003

I have no problem with Men mailing me here at AdultFriendFinder! I just dont have enough mail privileges to respond to in a timely manner! But the ones who read my profile and fit my criteria and mail me pics to AdultFriendFinder inbox with other info then they are the ones who get my attention!! FYI


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score