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Nope never hid anything here on the site!!! I hope all is going well on your vacation my friend..
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7/21/2019 12:00 pm |
No, I'm an all in kind of guy.
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Well I wouldn't WANT to be kept a secret and if I was, I would want to know why! .. unless he's married and I knew that already,,,,
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7/21/2019 12:10 pm |
If u get into that much deep relationship than the answer is no there should be no secrets
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My ‘spidey’ would be throwing up all kinds of red flags If there’s mutual declaration that we are exclusive and ‘the relationship is one of love, trust and total honesty’, I sure as heck better not be kept hidden like a dirty secret.
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I would not hide it at all.
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1 post 7/21/2019 12:20 pm |
If one lives their life right, they should never have to hide anything.
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Only if he is married. IF that wasnt disclosed intially....then the trust is already thrown outta the window. I would wanna know the whys of the secret. Definitely feels like something is amiss. Meeting on this site could pose a problem....but even then noone bit you two need to know where ya met. Many people just say ' online '. Yes.....he has some splaining to do...me thinks ~~
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I would be honored to have you by my side out in the open for sure
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7/21/2019 12:32 pm |
That would be 100% totally up to you...Of course good communication with your friend/partner is the key!
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7/21/2019 12:35 pm |
A very nice ethical question. You would hope that the person you are involved with is honest and up front. That person would care that much to let you know where you stand in your relationship. If not then you aren’t really in a relationship. That person would only be about them. Shitty way to find out...but little for doubt to end what was never going to be. And so the All American Rejects.... Let me know that I've done wrong When I've known this all along I go around a time or two Just to waste my time with you Tell me all that you've thrown away Find out games you don't wanna play You are the only one that needs to know I'll keep you my dirty little secret (Dirty little secret) Don't tell anyone, or you'll be just another regret (Just another regret, hope that you can keep it) My dirty little secret Who has to know When we live such fragile lives? It's the best way we survive I go around a time or two Just to waste my time with you Tell me all that you've thrown away Find out games you don't wanna play You are the only one that needs to know I'll keep you my dirty little secret (Dirty little secret) Don't tell anyone, or you'll be just another regret (Just another regret, hope that you can keep it) My dirty little secret Who has to know The way she feels inside (inside)? Those thoughts I can't deny (deny) These sleeping thoughts won't lie (won't lie) And all I've tried to hide It's eating me apart Trace this life out I'll keep you my dirty little secret (Dirty little secret) Don't tell anyone, or you'll be just another regret (Just another regret) I'll keep you my dirty little secret (Dirty little secret) Don't tell anyone, or you'll be just another regret (Just another regret, hope that you can keep it) My dirty little secret Dirty little secret Dirty little secret Who has to know? Who has to know? [post 4233553]
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If I am in a relationship with a women I am in it with ONLY her. It is hard enough to find a good relationship to ruin it by having one on the side. I do not try to break up someone's relationship to get one either. So nice to be insane; no one asks you to explain.
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All in here so no need for secrets.
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ONLY if discretion was talked about in the beginning. Otherwise, Be open. Or don't get involved.
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If I am in with a married, yes, I can be a secret. I would hope to be. But, if we are both single, I refuse to be behind the scenes. No man is worth me feeling badly about myself.
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Start all relationship with the truth. both should be honest with one another. no hiding any thing from each other if your lovers and you want more. if he / she don't want to let others know about you then there something wrong. ask if you don't hear what you want then end it, it wont last. hope you get your answer
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7/21/2019 7:56 pm |
I don't believe in secrets when it come to a relationship. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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7/21/2019 8:22 pm |
I believe the best way to look at yourself in the mirror is to not be ashamed of my actions. Therefore, I wouldn't be on a site or involved with someone if it had to be hidden. I believe in full frontal exposure LOL.
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If it was purely sexual, then maybe I would not want to broadcast it. But if the relationship is deeper, you have to have honesty and openness.
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I hope all is well, take care !
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Joy if I were the lucky guy, I would not hide the fact, I hope we would be walking holding hands or arms linked and heads held high.
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No I would not keep it a secret one bit in how we met as long both parties are ok with it. but if you said let tell everybody that we met in a bar I would go along with it.I would be looking out for her best interest.
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I'm poly, and my wife knows of my interests in others. Just like I know of her interest in others. A secret whether a relationship or affair always comes to light. I have had my share of secrets, my wife as well. Today we live and love openly. secrets only cause heartache. unless the seriousness of the relationship is never approached, many wouldn't care about being a secret or out in the open... The Hubby
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I'm not one for keeping secrets. Here or in my outside life. But to answer, I have to say I'd be shouting it from the roof tops if you and I were in a relationship.
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Joy, Hello My Twin..I hope your trip is going great...Being a secret or the secret on the side can be sexy for a moment but you need to talk to the person in your life..is there a reason for keeping it a secret ? Protecting you from someone in his life ? A stalker ?? The best way to figure this out is to ask the person in your life.."WHAT is going on ?" and do not settle for anything less then 100 % truth.. Without truth & honesty no relationship can survive.. Hugsss, Ana6
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Hi Sweetheart! I would keep it a secret if that's what the other person would want it's all about trust. In my relationship we are very open to other people knowing that we are together but what we do is our business! I think it would depend on your situation if you wanted to keep it a secret or not. Butch
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7/22/2019 4:56 am |
There is nothing secret under the Sun A Secret between 2 is Best Kept if one of the 2 are Dead. What secret*z ][ have left,,, ][ keep in (\/)y luggage. ][ went to Calgary,,, fckn luggage went to Vegas.
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7/22/2019 5:41 am |
Ni I wouldn't hide it
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If I was in a relationship with you, I would love to have the world see us naked together..of course only if you agreed to post videos of us making love and have hot kinky sex together. I would love that!! XOXOXOXOXOXO!
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If you mean would I mention I'm on this site if I'm with someone who isn't, then I wouldn't at first. I wouldn't be looking for anybody else obviously but if things got serious I would leave here.
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7/22/2019 4:55 pm |
Follow your heart, mind, and your instincts and enjoy your vacation! Become an Apollorising58 watcher!
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If all of those things were true I’d never hide a woman I wanted to be with. If you have to ask this question it might be time to question if it’s really love and the other’s definition of a relationship.
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Hi Joy. taking me further with a question... Although, I have kept secrets for years, for various reasons, the knowledge of you would not be one of them... so, my answer would be "no" I wouldn't hide it... I don't "show & tell"... most of what I post is "made up"... never meant to hurt or deceive... As a matter of fact, when we first became acquainted (thru this site, not in person), we exchanged home addresses... and, we corresponded thru snail mail... then, we exchanged other pieces of information, including other sites that we visit... I even violated one of my rules, 'cause we hadn't broken bread, and that is one of those unwritten rules for me, before I share parts of me... and, yet... it worked out... but, there are people that want what they want, when they want it... they become consumed with just that... and, other people's feelings become forgotten... at the end of the day... you don't know what people are going to do... I hope you enJOY your vaca... reminded me of this one... Emily Osment - "Truth or Dare" I got a secret, I'm telling everyone Don't wanna keep it, I wanna play it dumb I made a promise I think I'm ready to break Its just a question there's nothing wrong or right But your intentions keep you up at night Play with fire and you are way too insane But when the lights go out, go out We are just beginning And not a sound, our eyes are looking down Spin the bottle round and round and round and round Last kiss on the tip of your lips Where it heads, now watch your heart beat beating Time's up, are you ready or not? So don't stop when you get that feeling now, now Tock tock, it's your heart beat beating Now, now, it's just a game To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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I wouldn't hide it at all my friend. Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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Hi Joy Long time since I commented. I currently have someone from this site and I have gladly me all of her family and some friends. She has also met a good part of my family and working introducing her to the few friends I have. So yes definitely for me. And if you wanna check her out look up MLP1971. We have quite an open an honest relationship.
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Trust comes only after one is honest and truthful. I am not nor will I be a dirty secret. And by the same token I tend to keep my personal business off the internet (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Hey Red, .........You’re Second to None!.......... Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
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Hypothetically speaking; Have you ever had a conversation regarding this with him? Maybe your views/opinions on what kind of relationship you have are vastly different. Communication is sooo important. I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella Its not me....It's you. And no...we cannot be friends
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7/24/2019 11:25 am |
it would be soley based upon our relationship and how WE wanted to keep it
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If it is a real relationship, not just one based on encounters, then no there shouldn't be secrets.
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totalmente segredo querida
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Honestamente no ocultaria una relacion contigo si la tuviera fuera y dentro del AdultFriendFinder
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I never talk about relationships - overt or covert - online or offline - its nobodys business but mine and hers
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I had "someone" on the side for two years. They were my little secret. It was terrible trying to juggle the two relationships. I finally confessed to my partner and she ended things with me. I also ended the tryst and am now single. I won't ever keep secrets again. It's too damaging to the other partner. It's not fair to them. They didn't sign-up for that and if we can't be loyal, then we shouldn't be in the relationship to begin with. It caused so much pain and devestation and it took a toll.
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No secrets, full disclosure. Honesty IS the best policy.
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Honesty is the best policy.
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7/27/2019 11:06 am |
Honesty is the best policy!
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7/28/2019 5:52 pm |
No secrets here
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7/29/2019 10:21 am |
Nice Ass
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7/29/2019 11:11 am |
nice
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I don’t believe in secrecy unless that’s what “YOU” want me to do. I’m personally a private guy anyways and I don’t want people in my business. If you want to share our relationship to everyone then I’m cool with that too.
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Open and Honest for me JOY Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"
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I'm attached, so yes, It would have to be a secret FWB type of situation.
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8/4/2019 6:50 pm |
Only thing I hide on this site is my face
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8/5/2019 8:25 am |
ok
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unless either is attached, what is the point of a secret? would love a naughty gf
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8/7/2019 12:53 am |
in all honesty... read your blog. the pain, the anger. therefore the honest answer... it does not matter how i answer it matters how you feel and what you are willing to except bonne chance there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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8/8/2019 3:13 am |
Very interesting blog good thoughts went into creating it
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8/9/2019 3:29 pm |
I would absolutely keep the secret. I am speaking from personal experience. It went both ways for me and her. We kept each others secrets safe and discreet. I would hope that others feel the same.
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8/12/2019 8:18 pm |
I feel that what goes on in the AdultFriendFinder community is by it's nature, meant to be discreet. But if it led to something more, I definitely would not hide it!
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8/13/2019 2:54 am |
Only if you had asked me to, I openly expressed some of my feelings about someone I was involved with here...too bad it backfired a bit, because some of her...friend list turned on me, proceeding with caution at the moment
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8/14/2019 12:19 am |
Yes I can keep a secret
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8/15/2019 12:51 am |
Everyone should be open, no matter what the situation is
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8/15/2019 7:12 am |
It's all out or get out.
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8/16/2019 10:09 pm |
I would not want to be a secret again. Was one for 6 yrs made me have a complex big time like I'm not good enough
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8/17/2019 4:31 pm |
Nice...Je.je.je
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8/18/2019 12:38 pm |
If u yourself doesn't like to be hidden then why would the person your with here on the site want to be one
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no reason to keep secret
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6/3/2020 4:20 am |
i so agree there has to be complete honesty and trust or you have nothing...
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